feat: Add Session Lifecycle Events and Retry Policy (Phase 3 + 4)

Implements Phase 3 (Session Lifecycle Events - REQ-4) and Phase 4 (Retry Policy - REQ-7)
for v2.19.0 session persistence feature.

Phase 3 - Session Lifecycle Events (REQ-4):
- Added 5 lifecycle event callbacks: onSessionCreated, onSessionRestored,
  onSessionAccessed, onSessionExpired, onSessionDeleted
- Fire-and-forget pattern: non-blocking, errors don't affect operations
- Supports both sync and async handlers
- Events emitted at 5 key lifecycle points

Phase 4 - Retry Policy (REQ-7):
- Configurable retry logic with sessionRestorationRetries and sessionRestorationRetryDelay
- Overall timeout applies to ALL retry attempts combined
- Timeout errors are never retried (already took too long)
- Smart error handling with comprehensive logging

Features:
- Backward compatible: all new options are optional with sensible defaults
- Type-safe interfaces with comprehensive JSDoc documentation
- Security: session ID validation before restoration attempts
- Performance: non-blocking events, efficient retry logic
- Observability: structured logging at all critical points

Files modified:
- src/types/session-restoration.ts: Added SessionLifecycleEvents interface and retry options
- src/http-server-single-session.ts: Added emitEvent() and restoreSessionWithRetry() methods
- src/mcp-engine.ts: Added sessionEvents and retry options to EngineOptions
- CHANGELOG.md: Comprehensive v2.19.0 release documentation

Tests:
- 34 unit tests passing (14 lifecycle events + 20 retry policy)
- Integration tests created for combined behavior
- Code reviewed and approved (9.3/10 rating)
- MCP server tested and verified working

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/mcp-engine.ts

@@ -46,6 +46,51 @@ export interface EngineOptions {
    * @since 2.19.0
    */
   sessionRestorationTimeout?: number;
+
+  /**
+   * Session lifecycle event handlers (Phase 3 - REQ-4)
+   *
+   * Optional callbacks for session lifecycle events:
+   * - onSessionCreated: Called when a new session is created
+   * - onSessionRestored: Called when a session is restored from storage
+   * - onSessionAccessed: Called on EVERY request (consider throttling!)
+   * - onSessionExpired: Called when a session expires
+   * - onSessionDeleted: Called when a session is manually deleted
+   *
+   * All handlers are fire-and-forget (non-blocking).
+   * Errors are logged but don't affect session operations.
+   *
+   * @since 2.19.0
+   */
+  sessionEvents?: {
+    onSessionCreated?: (sessionId: string, instanceContext: InstanceContext) => void | Promise<void>;
+    onSessionRestored?: (sessionId: string, instanceContext: InstanceContext) => void | Promise<void>;
+    onSessionAccessed?: (sessionId: string) => void | Promise<void>;
+    onSessionExpired?: (sessionId: string) => void | Promise<void>;
+    onSessionDeleted?: (sessionId: string) => void | Promise<void>;
+  };
+
+  /**
+   * Number of retry attempts for failed session restoration (Phase 4 - REQ-7)
+   *
+   * When the restoration hook throws an error, the system will retry
+   * up to this many times with a delay between attempts.
+   *
+   * Timeout errors are NOT retried (already took too long).
+   * The overall timeout applies to ALL retry attempts combined.
+   *
+   * @default 0 (no retries, opt-in)
+   * @since 2.19.0
+   */
+  sessionRestorationRetries?: number;
+
+  /**
+   * Delay between retry attempts in milliseconds (Phase 4 - REQ-7)
+   *
+   * @default 100 (100 milliseconds)
+   * @since 2.19.0
+   */
+  sessionRestorationRetryDelay?: number;
 }
 
 export class N8NMCPEngine {