refactor: Migrate all lib packages to ESM

Convert all shared library packages from CommonJS to ESM for consistency
with apps/server and modern JavaScript standards.

Changes:
- Add "type": "module" to package.json for all libs
- Update tsconfig.json to use "NodeNext" module/moduleResolution
- Add .js extensions to all relative imports

Packages migrated:
- @automaker/dependency-resolver (already ESM, added .js extension)
- @automaker/git-utils (CommonJS → ESM)
- @automaker/model-resolver (CommonJS → ESM)
- @automaker/platform (CommonJS → ESM)
- @automaker/utils (CommonJS → ESM)

Benefits:
✅ Consistent module system across all packages
✅ Better tree-shaking and modern bundling support
✅ Native browser support (future-proof)
✅ Fixes E2E CI server startup issues

All tests passing: 632/632 server tests

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

libs/git-utils/src/status.ts

@@ -4,7 +4,7 @@
 
 import { exec } from "child_process";
 import { promisify } from "util";
-import { GIT_STATUS_MAP, type FileStatus } from './types';
+import { GIT_STATUS_MAP, type FileStatus } from './types.js';
 
 const execAsync = promisify(exec);